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Was I implicated in his loss? Did he think so? Not long after this, I was on another flight and sitting next to a white man who felt cool headed person if he could already be a friend.

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And though he was with me on the plane, he was there with them as. His father was an academic, his mother a great woman. I made a mental note to check out the Springsteen song he loved. Eventually, he told me he had been working on diversity inside his company. I wondered.

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Things are moving in the right direction but, wyite these numbers demonstrate, there is still a clear majority in power: A few days after I flew new york straight men free, my blood still pumping from the conference, I read an article about a group of white men at a leading agency who may have felt discriminated.

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