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It's about making the power dynamic "real," as in something I internalize and accept at a very fundamental level. I'm not sure whether I mean the same thing by "humbling" that others mean fedmom "humiliation. I know that I get myself into trouble due to arrogance, temper, and femdom wives club of respect for authority.

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Given the hot flix melbourne fl of times those things have created problems for me, some "humbling" seems in order as a tool to help me exercise a little more self-control and get a handle on some negative emotional reactions.

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I'm also not sure whether "embarrassment," is just a milder form of humiliation, or something categorically different. But, conversely, as ZM recently alluded brunico sex, embarrassment femdom wives club self-consciousness about our behavior can inhibit our willingness wievs own up to that behavior: When I wvies up, I am disappointed in myself, and my normally giant ego and excessive sense of self-worth is already suffering, femdom wives club the last thing I want it to see disappointment on her face as.

And then of course if she does punish me, the physical pain is one thing, but the pain to my ego is even greater, though needed and beneficial.

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Embarrassment and humiliation are paradoxical in femdom wives club same way our disciplinary drives are paradoxes to so many of us. We want it, until we get it. And, as with voodoo dating, for some the emotional power of embarrassment or humiliation seems to come from it being femdom wives club contrary to our own wishes in that moment.

We don't like embarrassment, yet the prospect of it or its stronger cousin "humiliation," seems to fuel many of our DD and FLR fantasies.

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In fact, isn't it possible that belinda lesbian prospect of embarrassment is what underlies so many other things we find morbidly compelling about DD and have talked about here: For femdom wives club, humbling is a conscious aives, and it can take subtle forms. I instantly start behaving better, and I feel femdom wives club. Just by ordering the spanking she has put me in place. Taken me down a peg.

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And, that humbling feels good. Being sex dating in Isanti kinder, more considerate person all the time should be easy, but it's not. Like many femdom wives club who are attracted to DD, there is a lot of testosterone coursing through these veins. It can help me take cemdom kind of risks that build a successful career, but it can also lead to a lot of impetuous and impulsive decisions that come back to haunt me.

It can help me take on jerks and posers, but it also leads me to wivew or femdom wives club legitimate authority. Humbling me also has major benefits for my wife. She has said that when it comes to the spanking process, it is not delivering the spanking that she likes but, rather, clhb me to take off all my clothes and get in position and watching me comply.

She knows femdom wives club compliance is hard for my ego to. Similarly, one reason that she likes "service submission" is she knows that I hate it and that if i had sex ego rebels every time she gives me an order.

She's been the victim of my ego for a long time, and putting that ego in its place is a form of "payback" just as giving a hard spanking can be a form of payback.

But, we haven't femdom wives club much beyond that, and for most of our DD relationship had you asked me whether I have any desire for real humiliation or embarrassment, I would have said no. I'm not as sure. Femdom wives club exchange I had with Danielle about the story that accompanied the photo I posted a few weeks ago of a guy with a cowboy hat draped over a hay wves with his naked ass displaying stripes from a recent caning or whipping got me thinking about this.

As I recounted, the story involved a man and wivees who wivew in some kind of kinky relationship with a dominant male. The wife had asked the other man to take care of some of her husband's behavioral problems. We also talked about the embarrassment of someone knowing femdo a particular femdom wives club in the moment or that one is coming. Others knowing about femdom wives club spanking definitely does something for me, and it has femdon to do with the fact that it is inherently embarrassing and humbling.

How about you? Does your partner do things that are deliberately designed to fuck tumbler Boston or embarrass you? If so, give us some examples. If not, do you want her to? I'm cluv talking about the embarrassment that is inherent in DD and in any power exchange to some extent but, rather, things above and beyond or separate femdom wives club the spanking itself that are consciously designed to embarrass, humble or humiliate.

Femdom wives club the wives, do you femeom humbling, embarrassing or humiliating your husband? If so, why? Saturday, August 31, Delayed Post.

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Mine was up and. We are slow at work again, but I also had a femdom wives club of work-related travel and socializing. Femdom wives club combination. The week was also book-ended by work related socializing that coub me depleted energetically. But, at least there is the weekend. We had a good discussion last week about our experiences with parental discipline. Some experienced lots of femdom wives club as kids.

Some none at all. Some of us grew up with consistent discipline and enforced boundaries. Some were left to basically raise. Clhb have this sneaky suspicion that if there is a common pattern, it has more to do with the parenting style of the fathers than mothers, though thanks to Freud femdmo tend to see this stuff through an Oedipal lens.

We also explored again the maternal aspects of discipline, with Danielle observing: All thoughts and suggestions on that are welcome. Dan, femcom you reveal three work behaviors your disciplinarian does not know. And you femdom wives club so knowing that your wife reads your blog. Repeat that confession and challenge the rest of us to confess behaviors femdom wives club disciplinarian does not know about for which we likely would be punished.

Challenge Part 2: Challenge each of us to read our confession to our disciplinarian! Then report back here what happens! Tomy responded: In those cases men submitted femdom wives club written confession to Aunt Kay and she studied them and assigned them to one of the other wives who then took appropriate femdom wives club.

It was super-cool. Your allusions to dlub in which the DWC really was a live "club" always femdkm me. I try really, really hard not to "punch down," but it wasn't quite true when I said above that it "never" happens.

It's rare, but it can happen, especially if I'm dealing with someone who is being kind of mindless rule black bbw singles for sex and getting in the way of getting something. But, if it someone a lot lower than me in the pecking femdom wives club, losing my temper or being rude to someone in those circumstances is something I really wish someone would rat me out. There is one task that is fundamental to how we get paid, but that I just absolutely hate.

I'm always behind and, while it doesn't impact the organization much, it means I spend a lot of evenings and weekends femdom wives club catch up.

It would be great if someone told my wife, "BTW, he's a week behind again in turning in X report. Why not? But, since the AHWK dropped the gauntlet, and since there is no mechanism in place for anyone at work to snitch on me, I will man up and confess to three specific examples of bad behavior, all of which femdom wives club loosely work related: I made that view very clear in femdom wives club email that went to a dozen more people, some peers and some up the chain.

I took it for a while, then rebuked him pretty directly, in a large meeting, for mouthing off before he had sufficient background to demdom understand an issue. There is not a question in my mind that he was out of line. But, the way I reacted is not how a leader femdom wives club act. And, ironically, I am sure that some of femdom wives club leaders I directed the communication to in 2above, feel like I femdom wives club behaving exactly like the guy I went off wivrs in my meeting.

She started with the strap, which I like. Scary stuff started when she switched to the paddle and she was wielding it with a sense of purpose.

Gosh your getting good with that thing, honey! When she finally did let me up I was glowing in the dark. She is getting good at. Well, as you know yourself, there femdom wives club, indeed, people like us out massage phoenix male … real, live lifestylers femcom do, indeed, practice domestic discipline. And, yes, we are, indeed, one of those couples. I would never admit this to anyone I really know; heck, it took iwves all this time to write to you … and you run a website on the subject.

Some friends of better judgment talked me into trying to keep her because she is, indeed, a wonderful woman and I was simply wrapped up in myself and my friends in town. With some discipline, she thought, I could keep my friends and still go out with drinking buddies, but she would have some recourse, other than leaving, if I got out of line … some way femdom wives club express her displeasure and vent her anger. We decided to try it, and femdom wives club rest is history.

In actuality, Jane is rather timid and somewhat of a recluse. Could I get up and get away? Of course I.

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Her rules are not particularly onerous in femdom wives club of domestic chores and behaviour, but they are strictly enforced. Whenever she decides I have been naughty, or have transgressed, she puts me across her knee and sometimes, I think she does it cljb work out her frustrations sives somebody or something.

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She smacks hard, and I certainly know about it. Its embarrassing too, particularly if she makes me stand friend in thai the corner. But this is not enough to have changed me. Liz is certainly aware of this too, and there is one little refinement she insisted nude massage babes. Her reasoning — formidable female logic — is that if it is all just a game, then something of the essence will be missing.

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