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I was in a bad marriage for 20 years and i finally found someone that i truely loved. I hate my life and I hate doing this and im darkside swingers Tharston scared I have lost him. It breaks my heart to hear about how swinging has damaged your marriage.
I am sure that you truly swingrs love him and were willing to do what it took to make him happy, even to the point of ignoring your own gut reaction and inner voice. Your description of your darkside swingers Tharston reaction reminds me of a child with a new toy in terms of new conquests and new women to chase.
Swinging has its own darkside swingers Tharston with the dressing up and anticipation.
Despite the excitement of doing something together, this activity often leaves those couples feeling further apart. I appreciate you sharing your experience.
I hope that those who are exploring that lifestyle listen to what you are trying to tell. The negative darkside swingers Tharston that you describe arising from swinging are literally rampant amongst non swingers.
In fact our society has reached a point where the majority of marriages fall apart—how many are truly happy? We have to stop sticking our head in the sand or practicing insanity which is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
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It probably was on the down slope. Thanks for writing.
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My experience with swinging has not been from my participation in it, but rather from working as a counselor with people suffering from the results of swinging. I would agree with you in that many times couples who try swinging are looking to fix darkside swingers Tharston in their marriage.
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I see many more negatives than positives to swinging. The issues of emotional bonding, soul ties, and supercharging the fantasy life are significant concerns that undermine marriages. Unleashing repressed sexuality may bring a release, although the price dar,side in the areas above are enormous.
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There are many spouses who are willing to try things just because their partner wants them too without considering the consequences. With swinging, the unwitting spouse is often seeking answers that swinging does not provide. My husband and I went into swinging after being married for 14 years.
We went in a strong couple so we thought. About 5 months ago, darkside swingers Tharston told me that he had had a secret affair with a female counterpart of a couple that we had both been with previously.
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He stated that it was an emotional affair, not based on sex. Our sex life had always been amazing….
This has completely thrown me for a loop. This woman was supposedly my friend, and they met and stayed in hotels adult want hot sex East Chicago Indiana darkside swingers Tharston occasions when my husband was supposedly working night shift.
She sent him a secret phone so that they could communicate without being found. They were found out by her husband, and he finally told me 2 weeks later.
We are now 5 months into trying to recover and this is darkside swingers Tharston of the most difficult things I have ever gone through in my life. I trusted him completely, although I always darkside swingers Tharston a difficult time watching him with another woman. The swinging, meeting other open couples, partying, dressing up, and just the darkside swingers Tharston of something new was exhilarating…. We actually thought it was bringing us closer together in the beginning, however we are extremely disconnected at the moment.
We are working hard to repair this broken relationship because we have a deep caring and I hope still love for one another, but we are not the only couple going through difficulty with regard to the exploration of the lifestyle.
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Thank you for sharing. In reading your darkside swingers Tharston, I felt like I was hit with a double-whammy, one from the affair, the other from the shock of assuming that the two of you were feeling closer, when the opposite was happening.
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It left me with a stunned sensation. That is quite a rude awakening.
I am glad to hear that the two of you are working on things. It is easy to confuse intensity for intimacy.
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With all the dressing up and socializing, there is a glitzy darkside swingers Tharston to it. The fun, excitement and exhilaration of swinging is definitely intense, but swinhers is not the same thing as the closeness, and soul-sharing of intimacy.
Taking steps to improve your relationship will pay off.